Sure, put the work in. But what's the point if you are not having fun? Humour, lightheartedness and the ability to laugh at oneself are a sure-fire route to transformation.
Patterns are essential to us. The ability to interpret a facial expression, for example. An optimised route home through the traffic. But patterns lock us in. We decide that something is NOT a helpful approach. Or she would NOT be a good person to have on the team. Transformation requires a constant testing of the patterns in our Life. Which need ditching?
The plan is rarely about absolutes. It is more about direction. On the path to the transformation you seek, regulalry adjust the plan as progress is made. Seek and you shall find. Revise and you shall find more deeply.
Keep going. keep at it. One more draft. Ten more calls. Another re-working of the spreadsheet. Push through the point of nearly to the point of reality.