It’s critical to get rock-star good at something. It could be playing loud music. It could also be making lasagne, delivering workshops, leading people, managing money, mowing the lawn, scuba diving….
But it is worth finding something to work at, to strive at, to graft at, in order to discover the particular pleasure deep expertise brings. It’s a deeper and longer-lasting and often accumulative enjoyment: one which is different to that resulting from a beer, a movie or Frisbee in the park which although hugely fun comes and then goes. This 'rock-star' pleasure is one which keeps you going day to day, which builds your moral, your confidence and makes you less dependent upon external factors to feel good.
If you get good at something you tend to enjoy it. If you enjoy something you tend to get good at it. Which comes first? Doesn’t matter too much…just know there’s plenty of free pleasure out there from developing an expertise.
And getting really, really good at something and enjoying doing it might give you a revenue stream which you could hardly call work. And that is worth putting a little effort into.