Stop trying. Stop struggling. Instead:
- Read a novel. Thriller, classic, whatever. Somewhere an author has a character solving your very problem.
- Write extensively in your (paper) notebook. Deep in your brain the synaptic pathways can knit to solve it. Simply give them a chance.
- Cook. Smells of herbs and textures of bread dough will kick-start the solution machine.
- Walk.The rhythm, the heart rate extended, the mind distracted. The solution manifests.
- In the mirror, look deep into your eyes. The soul can hide very little.
- Draw the problem, even though you cannot draw.
- Re-listen to the lyrics of the greatest songs. Sinatra, The Beatles and Petrovich Mussorgsky have the very way forward you seek.