Goals are great. Ambition is no bad thing. Drive is exciting. But acceptance is cool. Not everything will go your way, even eventually. Some things are out of your control. Perhaps you're ahead of your time. Maybe-shock, horror-you're even wrong. Put up a struggle with accounts, sure. Be persistent with your editor, absolutely. And don't let that credit card company get away with it. But accept some things in life. And certainly accept you. Success needs a you who is comfortable with themselves.