- Love
- Love
- Unconditional Love
- Cardboard boxes
- Peanut Butter Sandwiches
- Love
- More love
- Lots of love
- Bits of Dirt
- Beaches
- Positive Reinforcement
- Love
- Love
- More Love
- Consistency
- Conversation
- Love
- Interest
- Books read to them
- Enthusiasm for Life
- Love
- Extra cardboard boxes
- Sense of humour
- 100% full-on presence
- Love
- More Love
- Occasional Ice-cream.
(Most of the list applies to big kids, too)