Getting what you want quickly and easily.
- Model the behaviors you seek. Want more respect? Show more respect.
- Grow up as they do. The world is changing. They'll show you how.
- Do one-to-ones. I.e spend time individually with them. Regularly. Just hanging out: that's when real conversations occur.
- Be interested.
- Be interesting.
- Give unconditional love.
- Remind them that society sells a dream 'be like everyone else and you'll be successful'.
- Actually, if they notice, it's those who are different who are really successful. Whether carpenter, accountant or rock-artist.
- Support them in their dreams, emotionally.
- Hug them. Regularly.